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Last time I talked in general terms about boobs and having fun with them. This time I want to get a bit more specific and give you some suggestions on how to work on your babe-s boobs and what will give her the best sensations and what won-t. Fortunately no two girls are the same so what works for me and many other chicks may not work on your babe- lets face it, there are some girls out there who don-t want their tits to be touched by anyone. Personally I love guys playing with my tits and whenever my partner and I are just cuddling I-m not happy unless he spends some time fondling my boobs, afterall my boobs are there for a reason, and that reason is HIM.
Obviously you all realise that tits come in all shapes and sizes from very small up to very large. I-ve had fun with a girl who really had no tits at all - just very large nipples. On the other hand my natural D-s while big are not the biggest natural tits out there. I am sure that you have all seen pics on various websites of babes with natural boobs up to sizes so big that they would kill you if they ever fell on you. It-s just as well that girls- boobs come in all shapes and sizes because guys- tastes differ too. Some guys love babes with very little up top, my friend with nothing but nipples has no shortage of guys who want to get her into bed. Other guys like flirting with potential injury and only want to play with the biggest tits they can find and in between there are guys who just like tits - no matter what size they come in. I suppose with all this variation and interest in girls- boobs it was not long before scientists began looking at them too (the little perverts!?!).
Now there is an excuse if ever I heard one, why didn-t they just say they wanted to look at tits because they like looking at tits? I know a couple of scientists intimately and they-re just as randy as any other guy but they do like to be discreet so I guess hiding their interest behind a scientific study into tits is understandable. The studies have shown that while babes with big tits have the most fun it-s the babes with the perky little tits that have the most sensation. Evidently the longer you stretch nerve fibre the less amount of sensation that is passed along it so babes with little tits have shorter nerve fibres than babes with big tits. This means that when you lick or nibble a small tit you will produce more sensation for the owner of that tit and give them a bigger buzz than you will give a girl who has big or droopy tits.
When talking about boobs it-s impossible to overlook those wonderful little brown thingies that sit on the end of most boobs, the nipples. Big nipples have lots of nerve endings in them and when given the right sort of attention these nerve endings can send a girl into orgasm very easily - I know from personal experience. On the other hand big nipples can be over sensitive and produce so much sensation that it becomes painful for the girl. So tread warily until you know how much sensation your babe gets from her big nipples. Small nipples tend to be less sensitive and for many girls with small nipples the areola (the brown circular area around the nipple) is more sensitive and the area on the areola between 10 and 2 is the place to play. A small percentage of girls have inverted nipples but they get just as much sensation from sucking, licking and touching as other girls do.
So in case you-re wondering, here is what works for me. If you-re going to suck my boobs then you should definitely not suck so hard you are going to bruise me - no girl likes to be damaged like that, especially a hooker because bruising will cost her money. Instead don-t be too gentle either, just a nice firm suck and while you-re doing it run your tongue around my nipples and I-ll get so wet you will be able to feel my juices running all over your balls. If you want to nibble be gentle - hold my nipples in your teeth and gently pull and you will very quickly here how loudly I can moan. If you want to touch my breasts then cup them in your hands and squeeze gently or even run your fingers lightly around the areola and flick the nipples gently now and again. Treat me like that and you-ll get special treatment in return every time.
Now I suppose I should tell you what the experts say will please a woman. I-m not sure what qualifies these people as experts seeing that they are all men but I do want to give you a balanced view. The experts suggest that if your babe has big boobs then she gets the best sensation while lying on her back and you should concentrate on the outside of the breasts below the armpits and use your tongue and fingertips with a light flicking motion. A little nibbling may be good too. After reading that all I can say is that I-m glad I don-t have those experts playing with my boobs.
As I said before, that is not going to apply to everyone and it certainly doesn-t apply to me. If it-s a guy I like then nothing gets me hornier than sitting on his cock while he sucks, nibbles and plays. The sensation when I-m lying on my back is nice too but it isn-t anywhere near as good as what I get when I-m on top If your babe has small breasts the experts suggest that you should gently bounce your babes tits around in the cups of your hands remembering that small tits are much more sensitive than big ones. If you-re lady is breastfeeding an infant then you should be as gentle as you can because the baby has probably tried to suck her breasts off her chest. Be patient with her if she doesn-t want you to touch her breasts and if she does then you should concentrate on the underneath part of them.
Finally there are those babes who have filled up their chest with silicon for whatever reason. If done correctly implants will not affect the sensations that the girl will get when you play with her tits. These babes seem to get the most sensation when you start away from their nipples and gradually move your tongue or fingers in towards the nipples. So there you have a ton of information about tits and how to handle them. Perhaps you think you don-t need this sort of information, unfortunately it is my experience that the vast majority of guys who see me have no idea what to do when presented with a pair of eager boobs just begging to be handled correctly.
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Written by on October 3rd, 2008 with no comments.
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by Sarah Briggs
Let’s face it - most guys have experienced orgasm. In fact, most experience it without a partner by their mid-teens. Something you might not know is that not all women experience orgasm at all, and even less during intercourse. For a variety of reasons, many women do not masturbate. The clitoris does not make its presence felt as does the penis, and upon reaching sexual maturity, the female body does not experience erections or wet dreams. A lot has been said about the female orgasm. One thing of which you can be certain is that a guy who knows a lot about getting his parters off is a guy who will have his sexual partners eagerly coming back for more.
Women need more
Unlike most men, who find themselves excited when seeing an attractive nude female body, very few women are not triggered by seeing a nude male. And seeing a close-up of genitals is very unlikely to excite any woman. They’re just different that way, both genetically and culturally. No doubt that is why men spend so much time at strip clubs, where strip shows for women are more of a novelty. This is also why there are not more nude male magazines for women. Women need mental stimulation to achieve orgasm - especially their first time. Every woman is different in what exactly turns them on, but a lot of women also require a feeling of connection with their partner.
Whether or not your partner has come before or not, it is usually not as easy for women to experience an orgasm. It takes an average of twenty minutes for a woman to reach orgasm, and interruption in her mood can completely derail this process. Sure, some girls can come in a few minutes, but they are not the norm.
A lot of people ask the question "who is responsible for the woman’s orgasm?" Ultimately both partners are probably responsible. Let’s face it - guys aren’t built the same, and if women keep them guessing about what to do, it may not get done right. On the other hand, a lot of men seem to feel that sticking their penis in their partner should be enough. The truth is that it very rarely is enough, and the men that believe this are usually guilty of wilful ignorance.
Meet the clitoris
The primary trigger for most female orgasms is the clitoris, a small nub of flesh outside and just to the front of the vagina. In many intercourse positions, the clitoris is not touched in any way, making orgasm literally impossible for most women. For most women to come during intercourse, there must be some contact with the clitoris. In most cases, this can easily be achieved by the man’s pubic bone. Even easier, either the man or the woman can gently masturbate the woman by lightly rapidly rubbing her clitoris only after she is already excited. The main function of foreplay is to get the partners excited and to allow the female to lubricate. Many men who rush through foreplay because they are anxious to fuck miss part of the point - it takes a woman longer to become excited. If you routinely rush your partners through foreplay, they will not be excited, will very rarely if ever have orgasms with you, and will not look forward to more sex with you with a sense of anticipation.
For women who are uncomfortable with masturbation, a vibrator can be held on the clitoris. Also a stream of water from a bathtub or hot tub can be a great way for a woman to come.
The tongues have it
Most women’s favourite sexual activity is not intercourse, it is cunnilingus - pussy eating. The softer, smooth surface of the tongue is very well suited to the very sensitive clitoris. Where fingers can irritate, your tongue is a perfect tool to bring your partner to bliss and keep her there. If you want your partners to come back for more, remember to slow down the foreplay so they’re ready when you are, and make sure that they are satisfied as well as you are… And your partners will come back for more!
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Being licked feels wonderful to women. There are a few women who don’t find it pleasant, but most women just love it - if you do it right! The problem here is that according to women, a lot of men don’t know how to give a woman pleasure through oral - so strap on your safety belts - as we tell you what women really like. An important thing to understand about women is that a lot of women are shy and kind of embarrassed about how their body looks. If the woman you’re with isn’t comfortable with her body, be reassuring but also dim or turn off the lights. This will help your partner to concentrate on what you’re doing to her instead of worrying about how she looks to you.
After a nice long foreplay session, try moving down to your lover’s inner thighs. This is one of a woman’s most sensitive and erotic spots, although it is also one of the ones she worries the most about, appearance wise. Try gently kissing her inner thighs, and licking them with a dry, pointed tongue. Light nibbles are good, too. A few women are too ticklish to enjoy this. Don’t force the issue or she’ll be a nervous wreck instead of passionate. When you first move to your partner’s vagina, do not do anything sudden. Try licking gently up and down her lips, not opening them, just licking them and maybe a very gentle nibble. After a couple minutes, you can suck on them but never be rough or suck too hard. Don’t go further yet unless she urges you to or until you start hearing her breathing change or little moaning sounds.
Now you move on to the hood of skin covering her clitoris. That is the little nub of flesh to the front her her vagina. If a woman is excited, her clitoris will be
hard. If she is not totally excited, it will be soft and very small. If it is not totally hard, or you are not sure, suck gently on the hood over her clit, not yet touching the clit itself. You can use a finger from one hand to stroke her vaginal lips. If you feel moisture on them, you can very gently insert just the very tip of your finger between her lips as you suck over her clit. After a little while - and don’t rush - gently push back the skin so that the clitoris is exposed. Be very gentle with it - there are a lot of nerve endings in this piece of flesh. Gently suck it - VERY gently. Alternate sucking with soft licking with the tip of your tongue.
Now here are a few things you can try in any random order you like and as she likes-
- Try licking her clit in fast little circles
- Insert your finger into her canal
- Try licking in figure eight motions
- Use both hands to hold her legs apart
- Move the finger inside her like you were stirring a very small cup of coffee
- Put a second finger inside of her and spread the two fingers gently apart, then together over and over
- Lick her clit in a short, fast up and down motion
- Push her legs into the air and hold them there
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You can try other things, too. Make sure to pay attention, because at some point, your partner will become more excited. She may grab your head or start pulling your hair. If she pulls your head toward her, try not to change what you are doing with your tongue any more. A lot of men think that when a woman reaches her peak of excitement just before she climaxes that this would be a great time to add variety. Don’t. This is a great time to keep doing exactly what turned her on the most. Something to note here is that if a man starts to orgasm and the physical stimulation that got him there is removed, he will probably continue his orgasm. This is not the case for women. If you stop licking her before she is done, her orgasm will stop in the middle, and she will be very, very frustrated.
Never use teeth on a woman unless it is gentle enough not to hurt. Use a gentle touch always, unless requested otherwise. Be sure to pay attention so you’ll know which things you did that she liked the best. A man that gives great oral sex to a woman can bring her her greatest sexual pleasure.
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by Peter James
I know, you already know how to lick it down there. Trust me, after reading this, you will have learned a few new things to do down there. Oral sex is important. I don’t know if women prefer oral sex verses penetration. I would think that some, if not more than half do. Many women can’t achieve an orgasm with normal sex. That is a sad but true fact of life. Some women don’t like to give or receive oral sex. Most healthy people enjoy it a lot. Chances are if a woman doesn’t enjoy oral sex, she either had some bad experiences or she feels uncomfortable with her body.
You like it when she goes down on you? Then you should go down on her! I have known a few men who say they won’t lick their lovers luscious spot because they think that it is gross. I’m sure your woman doesn’t think its the greatest thing in the world to have her face near your sweaty nut sack.
Here is what you have been waiting your whole life for. Here is a list of things that you can do to make oral sex more enjoyable for her.
- Tease her first. Don’t go straight for the beaver, get to know the dam first. Lick her thighs. Kiss her belly button and tummy and drag your tongue down to her vagina. Let your tongue brush against her labia, but don’t stick it in. Give her a chance to get good and wet before you do.
- Have some fun. Women love to see their men having fun while they eat them. Just don’t go cracking any jokes. She will pull your head back down to her crotch using your ears as handles.
- Spend plenty of time down there. Pretend you are a miner looking for gold. Don’t spend 30 seconds down there and say you are done. Take your time. Enjoy all of her tastes and smells. Get to know every single part of her vagina.
- Work that clitoris. Spend time licking and sucking the clitoris and her hood. Start out real slow and work up your speed. Most women find it easier to have an orgasm when her clitoris is stimulated.
- Massage her outer lips. While you are sucking and licking her clitoris, massage her lips. Pull them away and bring them close together. This will drive her totally insane.
- Use your fingers. Use your fingers to penetrate her while you are licking her clitoris. She will love this. Chances are before long you will feel her tremble with pure delight. Also, you can rub her clitoris while you eat her out.
- Put a pillow under her rump. This will give you more room for your dinning pleasure. You will be able to focus more on how to please her if you have more access to her.
- Massage her nipples. Most women love it when they nipples are rubbed during sex acts. I had one girlfriend who insisted on this. She said that when I touched her nipples it made her clitoris tingle.
- Stop midway through intercourse to eat her. This will catch her by surprise. Get her all worked up by pounding the hell out of her. Just when she least expects it, jump down and start licking her beaver. She will go crazy when you do this.
- Eat her while you have mints in your mouth. This will set her wild. Put a menthol cough drop in your mouth and go down there. After you are done, share it and have her go down on you while she sucks on the cough drop.
- Do the hummer. Put your mouth on her clitoris and suck. While you are sucking, hum a little. Some women really like this. If she doesn’t, don’t feel like you were humming the wrong tune.
Here are some things that women hate.
- Bad reactions. Don’t tell her that she stinks or ask if she showered today.
- Don’t insist on performing oral sex. If she isn’t feeling so fresh, she is dropping you a hint. If you insist too much, you might get a face full of blood if she is on her period.
- Keep your nails trim. You don’t want to damage her because your nails are too long.
- No limits. There are no limits to where you can and can’t lick.
- Don’t blow air in her! This can cause serious health problems!!!!!
- No bartering. Don’t tell her that since you went down on her, she should go down on you.
- Don’t tell her what your ex liked. She isn’t your ex, so don’t compare her to her.
There you go. Follow these and you will be terrific when it comes to oral sex.
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by Michael Messner
Finding women who enjoy casual sex is like finding a gold mine. Everyone enjoys having a sex partner without any strings attached. It is like finding a hundred dollar bill on the side of the street. Nothing can get better than this. You dream about being able to do this, but you never get to. You have lost all hope haven’t you? Don’t loose hope. In this article, we will teach you how to find those partners for causal sex. If you are lucky enough to bag her, don’t talk about getting married afterwards. Act like the sex was good, but don’t go over board. Women do this when they play hard to get. Don’t show too much interest in her.
Act like you enjoyed the sex and her company, but don’t fall head over heels for her. At least if you have, don’t let her know about it. Don’t buy her anything. I mean never ever buy her anything. If she has sex with you and you bring over a bunch of roses, she will think you want more than just sex. Don’t get fooled into this! Be nice, but when it comes to spending money, no dice!
What ever you do, don’t fall into traps. If she starts crying because she wants a relationship or because she thinks all you want is sex, run fast away from her. She is saying these things to trap you into a relationship. Of course you don’t want that, all you want is the sex. You need to get those rocks off. If she pulls out the traps, be smart and don’t get caught in them. The problem with having causal sex is, that sex can loose its meaning. You are so happy to be getting laid, that there isn’t any love in it. I know that sounds mushy, but even men enjoy love. Consider the emotional effects this may have on you before you go crazy and have sex with tons of women.
Keep on the look out for new casual sex partners that you can engage in great sex with. This will give you a great amount of choices when you decide that you are horny that day. We all can use more choices, can’t we? Having these babes that you can bag at will is great. If you get turned down by that hot babe at the bar, you can always call up one of your casual sex buddies. This is a great way to make the anger of getting rejected less painful.
One of the things that you need to understand that when you have casual sex, many problems can happen. You can get STDs. If you engage in this type of sex, then you should be very careful. Always and I mean always wear a condom. Make sure that you get checked by the doctor often. It isn’t right to spread disease around to people. You wouldn’t like that happening to you. So please, watch your step.
Another thing to keep in mind is that sex can result in babies. Hold the damn phone, it can cause babies? Of course it can. If you are going to have casual sex, then you should be prepared to have kids. Condoms break, shit happens, and all that jazz. With sex, comes the chance of pregnancy. If you keep the things above in mind, you will be great with your casual sex partner. If you do it right, it can be a lot of fun. Always make sure to protect yourself at all costs. No pussy in the world is worth dying for.
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